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and afterwards to college. Whilst he was prosecuting his studies, I daily recommended him to the care of that God whose eyes behold all his creatures, and will reward and punish according to their merit. Ever since his return from Princeton he has resided constantly with me, and his conduct to every one with whom he has had any connexion has been equal to my utmost wishes. At present, my dear girl, I am in a very sickly condition, and, although I have concealed it from him, yet, in all human probability, my time in this world will not be long. Excuse the indulgent partiality of a mother, when I tell you it is my real opinion you can never place your affection on a more worthy young man than my son. He is endowed with more real worth than thousands of others whom I have known; and I have been told of instances of his benevolence which he has industriously concealed. I have only to add further, that the only worldly consideration now upon my mind is to see him happily married, and then my whole attention shall be fixed on that place where I hope we shall all enjoy eternal felicity.

MADAM,

Fam, dear Miss, your sincere well wisher.

LETTER 97.

The young Lady's Answer.

I will excuse the fondness of a tender mother for her only child. Before I received yours I had heard of the unaffected piety and the many accomplishments of your son, so that I was no ways surprised at what you said concerning him. I do assure you, madam, that I would prefer an alliance with you before even nobility itself, and I think it must be my own fault if I ever repent calling you mother. I was going to say that you had known but few pleasures in this life, to be deprived of your husband so soon, and the rest of your life spent under so many infirmities. But your letter convinces me that you have felt more real pleasure in the practice of virtue and resignation to the Divine will, than ever can be had in any, nay, even the greatest temporal emjoyments. I have sent enclosed a few lines to your son, to which I refer you for a more explicit answer, and am, madam, Your sincere well wisher.

SIR,

LETTER 98.

The young Lady to the young Gentleman.

I received yours, together with one enclosed from your mother, and congratulate you on the happiness you have had in being brought up under so pious and indulgent a parent. I hope that her conduct will be a pattern for you to copy after, in the whole of your future life. It is virtue alone, sir, which can make you happy. With respect to myself, I freely acknowledge that I have not at present any reason to reject your offer, although I cannot give you a positive answer until I have first consulted with my guardian. Monday next I set out for his seat at Bloomingdale, whence you may be sure of hearing from me as soon as possible, and am, Your sincere well wisher.

LETTER 99..

From the same.

SIR, In my last I told you that you should hear from me as soon as possible, and therefore I now sit down to fulfil my promise. I communicated your proposal to Mr Melvill, who, after he had written to his correspondent in New-York, told me as follows:

"Miss, I have inquired concerning the young gentleman, and the information I have received is such, that I not only approve of your choice, but must also confess that if I did not do every thing in my power to forward your union, I should be acting contrary to the request of your father when he lay on his death bed. You may," said he, "communicate this to your lover as soon as you please, and may every happiness attend you both in time and eternity.'

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And now, sir, have I not told you enough? Some, perhaps, might think too much; but I am determined to begin with as much sincerity as I could wish to practice if standing in the presence of my Maker. To expect the same from you is reasonable; I look for it, and shall be very unhappy if disappointed. But I will hope for the best, and doubt not but the religious education bestowed on you by your worthy mother, will operate on the whole of your future conduct in life. You may, therefore, lay aside the tedious formality of courtship, and write to me as one with whom you mean to spend your time in this world.

Ever since my arrival here my time has been spent in visiting the woods, the fields, and cottages, meditating on the unbounded goodness of the Almighty Creator. How infinite is his wisdom! how unbounded his liberality! Every thing in nature conspires to exalt his praise, and acknowledge with gratitude their dependance upon him. But I will not tire you with such dull descriptions of real beauties. Present my sincere respects to your worthy mother. I hope she gets the better of her disorder, and be assured that I am,

MY DEAK GIRL,

Yours and hers with the greatest affection.

LETTER 100.

The young Gentleman's Answer.

Is there any medium between pleasure and pain? Can mourning and mirth be reconciled? Will you believe, my dear, that whilst I was reading your letter with the greatest pleasure, I was shedding tears for an affectionate parent! Thus Divine Providence thinks proper to mix some gall with our portion in life. It is impossible for me to describe the variety of passions now struggling in my breast. Ten thousand blessings to my charmer on the one hand, and as many tears to a beloved parent on the other. I conceived a notion of two impossibilities;— one of which I am obliged to struggle with, the other, thanks to you, is over. I thought I could not live without my dear and honored mother, nor enjoy one moment's comfort unless I could call you mine; but I am now obliged to submit to the one, whilst I have the pleasing prospect of being in possession of the other. Will my dear sympathise with me,

o will she bear with human passions? And although all my hope of temporal happiness is centred in you, yet I doubt not but you will excuse my shedding a tear over the remains of a dear parent, which I am now going to commit to the tomb. My dear creature, were it possible for me to describe the many virtues of that worthy woman who is now no more, you would draw a veil over the partiality of filial duty. Her last words were these: .. My dear child, I am now going to pay that debt imposed on the whole human race, in consequence of the disobedience of our first parents. You know what instructions I have given you from time to time, and let me beg of you to adhere to them so far as they are consistent with the will of God, revealed in his word. May you be happy in the possession of that young lady on whom you have placed your affections; but may both you and she remember, that real happiness is not to be found in this world; and you must consider your life in this world as merely a state of probation. To the Almighty

God I commend you."

She was going on, when the thread of life was broken, and she was no more. Such was the last end of my dear mother, whose remains are to be interred this evening, and as soon as I can settle her affairs with her executors, I will, as it were, fly to meet you. God grant that our happiness in this life may be conducive toward promoting our everlasting felicity hereafter. I am, as before,

LETTER 101.

Yours while life remains.

From the Lady after marriage, to an unmarried Cousin.

DEAR COUSIN,

I have now changed my name, and instead of liberty must subscribe wife. What an awkward expression, say some; how pleasing, say others. But let that be as it may, I have been married to my Charles these three months, and I can freely acknowledge that I never knew happiness till now. To have a real friend to whom I can communicate my secrets, and who, on all occasions, is ready to sympathise with me, is what I never before experienced. All these benefits, my dear cousin, I have met with in my beloved husband. His principal care seems to be to do every thing possible to please me; and is there not something called duty incumbent on me? Perhaps you will laugh at the word duty, and say that it imports something like slavery; but nothing is more false; for even the life of a servant is as pleasant as any other, when he obeys from motives of love instead of fear. For my own part, my dear, I cannot say that I am unwilling to be obedient, and yet I am not commanded to be so by my husband. You have often spoken contemptuously of the marriage state, and I believe your reasons were that most of those you knew were unhappy; but that is an erroneous way of judging. It was designed by the Almighty that men and women should live together in a state of society; that they should become mutual helps to each other; and if they are blessed with children to assist each other in giving them a virtuous education. Let me therefore beg that my dear cousin will no longer despise that state for which she was designed, and which is calculated to make her happy. But then, my dear,

there are two sorts of men you must studiously avoid; I mean misers and rakes. The first will take every opportunity of abridging your necessary expenses, and the second will leave you nothing for a subsistence. The first, by his penuriousness, will cause you to suffer from imaginary wants; the second, by his prodigality, will make you a real beggar. But your own good sense will point out the propriety of what I have mentioned. Let me beg that you will come and spend a few weeks with us; and if you have any taste for rural and domestic life, I doubt not but you will be pleased. I am your affectionate cousin.

LETTER 102.

From a young Merchant in New-York, to a Widow Lady in the country.

MADAM,

Ever since I saw you at the Springs, when I was on a journey to the north, my mind has been continually ruminating on your many accomplishments. And although it is possible this may be rejected, yet I can no longer conceal a passion which has preyed upon my spirits these six weeks. I have been settled in business about three years; my success has been equal to my expectations, and is likewise increasing. My family is respectable though ot rich; and as to the disparity of our ages, a few years will not make any difference, where the affections are placed on so lovely an object. I can only say, madam, that prefer you to all the young ladies I have seen, and if business continues to increase I shall be greatly in want of one of your prudence to manage my domestic affairs. Be assured, madam, that whatever time I can spare from the necessary duties of my profession shall be devoted to your company, and every endeavor used to make your life both agreeable and happy. As you have relations in New-York, they will give you every necessary information concerning my character and circumstances, although I have not the pleasure of being known to them. If you will favor me with an answer to this, it will be ever esteemed a particular favor, and acknowledged with the sincerest respect, by

Your real admirer.

LETTER 103.

The Lady's Letter to her Brother, an Attorney, concerning the above.

DEAR BROTHER,

You know that in all affairs of importance I have constantly acted by your advice, as I am still determined to do; and therefore have sent you enclosed the copy of a letter which I received by the post, from a young gentleman in New-York, whom I have seen at the springs. His behavior here was polite without affectation, and an air of sincerity appeared in all he said. With respect to the subject he writes of, I will give you my own thoughts, and delay sending an answer until I have had your opinion.

I am at least a dozen years older than him, and possibly love, contracted where there is such difference in the ages of the parties, may terminate in want of respect on one side, and jealousy on the other. At

present I am so pe tered with rakes and coxcombs, that I would almost willingly give my hand to the first worthy person that offers. Indeed I have another reason for entering into the marriage state, and that is, I would choose, as I advance in years, to have a friend to whom I might at all times be able to open my mind with freedom, and who would treat me with that tenderness which any sex entitles me to. I have been a widow six years, and whatever others may say, I have found it attended with many inconveniences, and far from that pleasing life many are ready to imagine. But after all, I will be directed by you, as my only real friend to whom I can apply; if you think proper you may inquire, and when I hear from you I will send him an answer.

DEAR SISTER,

I am your affectionate sister.

LETTER 101.

The Brother's Answer.

I am glad to hear of your prudence in not being very hasty m an affair of so great importance, and upon which your happiness or misery in this world will inevitably depend. Your reasons against remaining any longer in a state of widowhood are what I much approve of, and it will give me great pleasure to promote your interest and happiness as far as I am able. I have inquired concerning Mr. Moreton, and every one gives him an excellent character. I have likewise conversed with him, and find him a very sensible young man. As to your objection concerning disparity of age, I do not think it has any great weight, and upon the whole I have but one reason against your union, and that is, that there is nothing more precarious than comínerce, and the merchaut who to-day has unlimited credit, may be tomorrow in the list of bankrupts. I do not urge this in order to prevent your happiness, but only that whilst you are free, you may take such measures as to secure a sufficiency against the worst. I would by no means dissuade you from complying with his request, as he seems every way worthy of your choice, and I really think it may be for your mutual happiness. These, dear sister, are my sentiments concerning this affair: but remember I leave it entirely to yourself, not doubting but you will proceed with the same prudence which you have heretofore shown.

ble.

I am your affectionate brother. P. S. I would avise you to write to the young man as soon as possi

SIR,

LETTER 105.

From the Lady to Mr. Moreton.

I received your letter, and my reason for delaying an answer, was, that I wanted first to consult my brother, whose opinion I had by the post yesterday. I freely acknowledge that you are far from being disagreeable, and the advantages on your part with respect to accomplishments are, I think, superior to mine. But these are but small matters when compared with what is absolutely necessary to make the marriage state happy. I mean an union of minds. Neither of us have had ma

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