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of women for attaining knowledge, or the sad consequences of their being left in ignorance, their influence on society as servants, as wives, as mis tresses of families, and as mothers; or their constituting the one half of the human race, redeemed by the precious blood of Jesus Christ, and designed for eternal life; every way is evident the great importance of forming the female character by education. -To exhibit a picture of that character as it ought to appear, when formed, was the

Second thing proposed.-The picture with which I shall present you, among other advantages, has that of antiquity. It was drawn by a masterly hand near three thousand years ago. It may be necessary, therefore, to remove some of the effects of the time, and retouch the lines that have been clouded and obscured by length of years; in plain terms, to explain some parts of the description, which relate to ancient manners and customs, and show how they may be usefully applied to those of our own age and country. The description I mean, is that left us of a virtuous woman, by the wisest of men, in the last chapter of the book of Proverbs; a description, which all mothers and mistresses should teach the female pupils under their care to read and learn by heart.

Prov. xxxi. 10. "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies." Such an one is to be found, but not without some care and diligence in the search. She is well worth the pains taken in the forming her, and more to be valued by her happy possessor than the brightest dia mond in the mines of the East.

11. "The heart of her husband doth safely trust

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in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil." A well-nurtured woman is man's best and truest friend. Her fidelity is inviolable as the covenant of the Most High, and her purity unsullied as the light of heaven. Absent, as well as present, her husband relies upon her, for the preservation of his possessions, and of herself, the dearest and most precious of all. With such a steward at home, freed from care and anxiety, he goes forth to his own employment, whatever it may be. He has no occasion to rob others by sea or land; to plunder provinces, or starve nations. Instead of her squandering his substance to gratify her own vanity and folly, the economy of his wife furnishes the supplies, and nothing is wanting in due time and place.

12. "She will do him good, and not evil, all the days of her life.". She will never abuse this confi. dence reposed in her, but endeavour to render herself daily more and more worthy of it. And even if her endeavours should not always meet with the desired success; if the good man should sometimes happen to be a little out of spirits, or out of temper; she will not therefore become so too. Her cheerfulness will revive and restore him. She will still" do him good, and not evil," while he lives; and if she survive him, will continue to show the same attention and regard to his family and to his character. "My Servius," said the Roman Valeria, holding in her arms the urn which contained the ashes of her husband-" my Servius, though dead to the rest of the world, can never be otherwise than alive to me."

Solomon's description of a virtuous woman con

sists of twenty-two verses. It is well worthy your observation, that eleven of these verses (half the number) are taken up in setting forth her industry and the effects of it. I shall recite all these together, that you may see what a variety of magnificent language is made use of, to describe her different employments, to recommend simplicity of manners, and make good housewifery and honest labour to be admired, in the rich and noble, as well as the poor and obscure among women. For you must bear in mind, that in works of the several kinds here mentioned, queens and princesses, of old time, disdained not to be occupied. You will likewise be pleased to consider, that if the rich are exempted from the necessity of working for themselves, they cannot be better employed than in working for the poor; since the coats and garments, made by the charity of Dorcas, were judged the best proofs of her goodness that could be submitted to the inspection of an apostle.

13. "She seeketh wool and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 19. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. 17. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 15. She riseth also, while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 27. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 21. She is not afraid of the snow for her household; for they are all clothed with double garments. 22. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. 24. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles to the merchant. 18. She per

ceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. 14. She is like the merchant ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 16. She considereth a field, and buyeth it; with the fruits of her hands she planteth a vineyard.”—On account of this her marvellous and unceasing dili. gence, with the many and great advantages derived thereby to her family, well may it be said, as it is said of her, 25. "Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come."

But the honour is not confined to herself. It extendeth to her friend and her companion in life; 23. "Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land;" that is, he is known as her husband; as a man blessed with such a wife; as indebted, perhaps, for his promotion, to the wealth acquired by her management at home (for honours are seldom open to the poor); for the splendour and elegance of his apparel, to the labour of her hands; and it may be, for the preservation and establishment of his virtue and integrity, to the encouragement in all that is holy, and just, and good, furnished by her example as well as her conversation, the nature of which is thus described :

26. "She openeth her mouth with wisdom, and in her tongue is the law of kindness." She thinks before she speaks; and therefore, neither introduces a bad subject, nor disgraces a good one by an improper manner of discoursing upon it. And as charity reigns in her heart, nothing that is uncharitable proceeds out of her mouth: all is lenient and healing. To express the whole in a few words, she says nothing that is foolish, nothing that is ill

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natured. But her charity is shown in deeds as well as words.

20. "She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.” This is yet another good effect of her economy and management. She is not only able to provide plentifully for her household, but has always something in store for the poor. Since what avails a charitable disposition, where vanity, folly, and extravagance have taken away the power to exert it? In vain is "the hand stretched out," when there is nothing in it.

Having duly considered this finished character of the virtuous woman, we shall not be surprised at the praise bestowed upon it, in the remaining verses of the chapter.

28. "Her children rise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her, saying, 29. Many daughters have done virtuously; but thou excellest them all." Happy the children of such a mother; they will be living proofs of the care taken by her in their education, when she taught them to walk, by the paths of honour and virtue, to the mansions of rest and glory. Happy the husband of such a wife, who sees all things prosper under her direction, and the blessing of Heaven derived to his family through her. They will all join in proclaiming, that among women who do well, honour is chiefly due to the virtuous and diligent wife, the affectionate and sensible mother.

30. Favour," or rather, "gracefulness, is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised." A graceful

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